Three stories to interpret the password of life
Mentality and Behavior A psychologist wants to know how a person’s mentality affects behavior.
So he did an experiment.
銆€銆€First, he let 10 people through a dark house, under the guidance of his line, all 10 people successfully worn the past.
銆€銆€Then the psychologist opened a light in the room.
Under the dim light, these people saw everything in the room and they were shocked by a cold sweat.
The ground of this house is a large pool with more than a dozen large crocodiles. There is a narrow wooden bridge above the pool. They just walked over the bridge.
銆€銆€The psychologist asked: “Now, who among you is willing to cross this house again?
No one answered.
After a long time, three daring stood up.
銆€銆€One of them walked cautiously, and the speed was much slower than the first one; the other trembled on the wooden bridge, and when it was halfway, it climbed over the bridge; the third step just took a few steps.All of a sudden, I no longer dare to move forward half a step.
銆€銆€The psychologist opened another nine lights in the room, and the lights lit the room a little white.
At this time, people saw a safety net under the wooden bridge. They were not seen at all because the color of the cable was very light.
銆€銆€”Now, who wants to pass the primary wooden bridge?
Asked the psychologist.
Five more people stood up this time.
銆€銆€”Why are you not willing?
The psychologist asked the two remaining people.
銆€銆€”Is this safety net sturdy?
“Two individuals asked in unison.
銆€銆€Many times, success is like passing through a small wooden bridge. The reason for failure is not that the strength is weak, the intelligence is low, and the deterrence of the surrounding environment – in the face of danger, many people have long lost their balance of mind, panic, chaos.Square inch.